Post by NINA ISADORA LOMBARDI on May 28, 2013 13:38:40 GMT -8
[atrb=style,width: 420px; background-color: efefef; background-image: url(http://i.imgur.com/6jh1H.png); padding: 5px, bTable] NINA I. LOMBARDI 26 | HETEROSEXUAL | UNEMPLOYED | LOCAL | MINKA KELLY THE INTERVIEW HELLO. THANKS FOR COMING IN TODAY. SHALL WE START WITH YOUR NAME? "Thanks for having me here today, but it doesn't seem like it's such a good thing to keep me away from food for so long though. I'm Nina. Nina Isadora Lomabardi. If you haven't guessed already my father is Italian." THAT'S A NICE NAME. WHAT DO YOU DO FOR A LIVING? "To be honest I don't have a job right now. As you can see I'm expecting and it's sort of hard to find a job that might be willing to take a pregnant woman in. So for the most part I just help my mother out with babysitting little kids at home. Well her house not mine." INTERESTING. WHAT DO YOU DO FOR FUN? "Well for fun I just like to sit outside in the shade and just read a book. I can read a lot of books in short amount of time, some people call it weird that I have that ability to do that. Just sitting in a comfortable spot and reading is what I like to do most of the time when I'm not helping my mother out. My mother does craft shows and babysits little children, and I help her out with those. Craft shows are so interesting, to see what others have for sale and what they have created. I've sold a few things like a few blankets that I've crochet and knitted. I personally just like doing the quiet things around the house, personally. Crocheting is easy enough, I've made a few scarves, hats, and lots of blankets. But it takes a lot of work to do those and I haven't created many in the last couple of months or so. But I'm hoping to get some yarn soon to make a baby blanket for this one here. Though I must say considering I'm a granny like person for wanting to read in a quiet area, crochet and knit things, there is so much more I love doing that most people wouldn't even believe I actually was capable of doing. Well maybe my on again, off again boyfriend, but you know no one else really. I love watching movies, marathons sometimes just sitting on the couch curled up in a blanket. Just saying in for the night is something I prefer to do more than go out and party and considering I have a little one on the way, it's not like I can do much partying here and there anyways. I love going to amusement parks and riding roller coasters over and over again. But I haven't been able to do that as of late, so it makes me sort of sad. Though I've found a new hobby to say the least. Well, not really. I just haven't done it in such a long time that it feels like a new hobby. I've started back up with yoga. Since it's good with keeping me busy and my doctor keeps saying it will help me keep my weight balanced with the baby coming and it will be easy to lose all the weight in the end once the little one is born. Though there are a few things that really turn me off in life and some seem to be really out there even some are so close to home, it's scary. For the fact at times I'm afraid my father will get hurt doing his job since he is a lawyer and it's scary at times. Whenever there is a big case he has he always had to have armed guards around all of us, including me. I don't know about you, but that's just a little too much for me to handle at times. I hate being followed like that, but I guess he just does what is best for all of us. Another turn off is smoking. Yes I know lots of people that smoke, but ever since I got pregnant I've become paranoid about staying away from people who do smoke. I don't want my baby to turn out awful because I'm around people who smoke and I inhale it or anything." WOULD YOU SAY THOSE ACTIVITIES REFLECT WHO YOU ARE? "Oh of I course I do believe those activities reflect who I am. I'm a caring person and my mother and father know it. I love helping my mother out with her daycare business. It's extremely adorable to watch the children play in the rooms that were designed just for them. My mother kept the play rooms I grew up in the house specifically for her job as a care taker. I had fun in those rooms and just watching those kids play with the things I grew up with brings back good memories. But little kids are cute and adorable at that age, so I don't mind helping her out every once in a while. Though my father would have be someone who fits my own personality really. Being the charismatic person that I am, I would do well in a career with talking to someone constantly and just keeping a conversation going. I know, I've already talked so much, but it's just who I am. A person who likes to talk about anything and everything. I'm one of the those girls who loves getting dressed up for anything fancy. Though it has to be a really fancy party though, if it's just some normal one I won't dress as nice. I'll just make myself look decent enough. Nothing too over the top or anything. But I do like to dress nice. My closet is full of clothes so I guess that might say something about me. Being one of those girls with a lot of clothes and not having room for anyone else's clothes. Let's see what else would someone like you want to know. Besides being a caring person, a clothes maniac, um, I'm super friendly, I don't care for people fighting or beating the crap out of each other. Oh I scream whenever there is a bug on the floor. It doesn't matter if it's small or big, I will scream at the top of my lungs. Um, I'm a really good lie detector. I can tell if people are lying or not, or well if I was paying attention to them really well I guess." COOL BEANS. THEY SAY YOUR FAMILY SHAPES WHO YOU ARE. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOURS? "I love my family. Though it's just my mother and father and then me. Only child really sucks at times. But I turned out alright I guess. I love my mother and father to bits though. They mean so much to me and if anything happened to them I wouldn't know what to do with myself. My mother and I are really close now, considering I've been helping with her daycare and that I'm pregnant and wouldn't know what to do on my own. So she is a big help in so many ways. And then there is my father, a lawyer like I said before. He means the world and with his job being so testy at times, it scares me at times when he has high profile cases though." AND YOUR LIFE? TELL ME ABOUT YOUR PAST. I'M EAGER TO HEAR. "Where does one even begin with their history? I guess maybe from the beginning, but it's so far away and long. I sure hope you don't have to go to the bathroom, though I might be rushing once this interview it over with. Well I was born on October fourteenth, on a beach. Yes it was a beach. My father and mother were in Italy at the time and had not expected me to arrive so soon. They thought they would have time to at least travel up to his parents house, my Italian parents. Since they had spent that day walking along the warm sand and breathing in the fresh air and there was no time for them to reach a hospital. Luckily, there was a paramedic there who was off duty, but could help my mother and father deliver me. I was healthy when I was born and then they went to the hospital afterwards via ambulance. But I didn't make it back to America just yet, my mother and father stayed in Italy for a few more weeks at least before they thought it would be safe for me to travel back home on a plane. My paternal grandparents were overjoyed to be able to see me before we returned home. After a few weeks of returning home my father received one of the most dangerous cases in his life, at least according to my mother anyways. We were on locked down for most of the case until it was over, with body guards everywhere throughout around house. My mother felt as if she was trapped insider her own home. There was one break in during that time and my mother was scared for my life as it was public knowledge that my father was a new father. So with the break in it nearly scared my mother to death that someone who kidnap me and hold me at ransom. So in the morning to see what the damage was done, it was only a broken window in the kitchen with a brick lying on the floor. The security guards had caught the trespasser before he could enter the house, but it's still unknown to me what his true intention was. Growing up was fun to say the least. My mother being the loving American woman that she is, made one of the large rooms on the first floor into a playroom. That same play room she uses now for daycare. But when I was five and up until I was maybe ten or so, I loved playing in there. I had a few Barbie houses all line up together and a few dozens Barbie Dolls, and Ken Dolls. I could spend hours playing in there by myself. Whenever my mother could not find me she would always end up looking in the playroom last, just because I was always quiet when playing with Barbies. Having little adventures, little story lines play out. It was really fun for the most part. And I hope someday if I have a daughter she will enjoy playing with Barbie Dolls as much as I did. Throughout middle school and high school it was pretty good for the most part. I was one of those girls who was both quiet, but had a loud voice whenever I spoke up in class. Though that was normal of me for the most part. Except in eighth grade I met a boy. The nicest boy anyone could really ask for I guess, always being there for his sister. Making sure she was alright. We would date every so often. It was off and on. It was like it was both meant to be and not meant to be. When ever I went over to his house, his stepfather was there, he scares the crap out of me. Except he kept forcing me to go over there when no one else was there. I didn't want to go, but he told me if I didn't go, he would do something to my parents. And my parents mean the world to me, and my father is a pretty good lawyer who could win any case he had for the most part. So throughout high school I kept seeing Kaine's stepfather out of fear. Fear for my life and my parents. He would force himself onto me. I got pregnant a few times, but to keep it on the down low I told Kaine I had abortion, when it actually turned out to be a miscarriage. Multiple times. His stepfather kept hitting me, trying to keep me to stay quiet and not tell anyone about what we were doing, especially Kaine. No one knows how bad I felt for lying to Kaine, but if I didn't something bad would have happened. And I'm no hero, I would run with my tail between my legs. Cowardly to safety. After graduation, I kept seeing Kaine's stepfather, Charles. It wasn't long afterwards that I told him to leave me alone. I could charge him with rape for all those years and I left him be with his wife, Kaine's mother. I had to get away from him for the time being. Just long enough to get something on him. I told my father about it, and I was scared to even tell him. I didn't know what he was going to about it. I was scared for my life again. I didn't leave the house after I told him, and he seemed both worries and angered that a grown man would do something to a teenage girl in high school. I never went to college, so college was out of the picture. I started to help my mother with her stay at home job of daycare for a few fellow friends and their friends. It was nice for the time being. After years of being afraid I sort of ventured out to just get a breather from the house. I bought my own apartment with money from my trust fund. I made sure I was safe from any harm that could have come. Though it didn't last that long of peace and quiet. Charles, Kaine's stepfather saw me at the store and came over to me, threatening me again about the deal we had made. And that I couldn't do anything about it now since I wasn't some teenage girl anymore. He left me alone for a little bit, though. A few weeks at least. I had enough courage in those weeks to find people to hang with for a few of them. To at least call as casual friends for the most part. Though one night I had a one night stand with some guy, it didn't end that bad, but I guess it all depends on what side you wanted to be one. He had gone before I awoke in the morning, but completely forgot to make sure my door was locked after he had left though. Because somehow Charles found my small fancy apartment and tired to get the upper hand with me. He forced himself upon me and I took what was coming from him. I couldn't do anything but take it. I couldn't handle it anymore. I had to tell Kaine the truth. And I know now he deserved that much from me. The truth of it all. He's the one guy that has been there for me besides my own father. The one guy that I actually had feelings for and I sort of ruined it over the years. For what I know now, Kaine gave his stepfather a pretty good beating. Except now, since I told Kaine about it. I still don't know who the father of the baby is and I don't think I will ever know. Or even want to know to be honest. Either it's Charles' child or the guy that I had the one night stand with. I don't know. But maybe now I can live in peace, at least long enough to raise this baby in a loving home that it deserves." WHAT ABOUT A SECRET? EVERYONE HAS A SECRET. "I... uh, I don't know. It's just that it's a secret that I've been holding onto forever and it's not something I really just want to blurt out to a complete stranger. It's not that I have anything against you or anything, but it's really personal. It's something that no one really knows about, well maybe they do, I don't really know anymore. My secret is that, well I guess you might already know with figuring out my history though. My secret is that the father of my baby is unknown and I have no intention of finding out who the father is. And that I've been raped and beaten multiple times by Charles, my on again off again boyfriend, Kaine's stepfather; with pregnancies ending in miscarriages, and not abortions as I've been telling Kaine." ALRIGHT. TIME'S ALMOST UP. TELL ME ABOUT YOUR DREAMS. QUICK! "My dreams are to become a really good mother to this baby. Other dreams can happen at any given moment, I just don't know what those other dreams are at this time. Though I really hope some of them can come true, like a true love's kiss. Not like that has ever happened, but the feeling of receiving it though." AND THAT'S A WRAP. IT WAS NICE GETTING TO KNOW YOU. "Well I hope you enjoyed my sob story, but right now I really have to pee." BEHIND THE MASK TENNYSON | TWENTY | MOUNTAIN | ROSIE! | LIONEL, HENRY, JOSEF, nanananana-batman! |